it isn’t easy (well, it certainly wasn’t when i was younger). even now though, there are still stares and murmurs. thomas and i can’t walk down a single street in ottawa while holding hands, without turning multiple heads. my parents despise me for being gay (especially one that is legally married…
Instead you’re good at many other things!! Who cares about the stereotypes. We’re in an age of “re-definition”. You’re just leading the pack. :)
That’s a shame that you keep getting stares and murmurs though. That doesn’t happen to vanessa and I, so weird how lesbianism is much more accepted. But I guess that points to what society still expects of masculinity. I’ll punch them all in the box!